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Selfish Era: Dating in 2026

Affirmations, scripture, prayers, goals and interactive activities — for Black women becoming the love they're looking for.

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Day 1 · Know Her — affirmation, scripture & promptPg. 8
Day 1 · Know Her — affirmation, scripture & prompt
Week 2 · Stand In Her Power — interactive checklistPg. 22
Week 2 · Stand In Her Power — interactive checklist
Prayer & Reflection — guided writing pagePg. 41
Prayer & Reflection — guided writing page

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Inside the Journal

  • Week 1 · Know Her — meet the woman God made before the world told her who to be
  • Week 2 · Stand In Her Power — boundaries, standards & the holy art of no
  • Week 3 · Pray Her In — surrender, faith & praying the love you've earned
  • Week 4 · Live Out Loud — joyful action, date from fullness not famine

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