Reviews

In her own words

Real readers, real shifts. These are unedited testimonials from the Selfish Era 28-day Dating Journal.

  • I bought the journal at midnight on a Sunday and was crying by Day 3. This isn't a cute little book — it's a mirror with manners.

    Jasmine T. · Atlanta, GA

  • Every prompt felt like she was sitting next to me on the floor. I haven't journaled in years — now I'm 14 days in and I won't stop.

    Renee A. · Brooklyn, NY

  • The boundary scripts alone are worth the price. I sent one verbatim and finally felt like I wasn't fighting myself.

    Kayla M. · Houston, TX

  • The Selfish Era language unlocked something. I stopped explaining my standards and started enforcing them. Different woman in 28 days.

    Simone D. · London, UK

  • I gifted it to my three best friends and now we have a group chat just for the prompts. This is movement work, not journal work.

    Christina P. · Oakland, CA

  • I read the affirmations every morning before I open Instagram. My nervous system thanks her.

    Brianna L. · Chicago, IL

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